A controversial post claimed that “if you invest in her, she’ll leave you for the man that has invested in himself.” One user agreed, replying, “Never invest in her, just yourself always.” This comment promotes a selfish and distrustful mindset toward relationships. While self-investment is important, dismissing the idea of supporting a partner creates division and breeds insecurity. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual growth, encouragement, and shared effort — not fear or suspicion. When people stop believing in teamwork, they turn love into competition, making it impossible to build trust or lasting partnerships based on understanding and balance.