A man’s joyous post about his fiancée took an ugly turn when another user commented, “Bro, this girl is not who you think she is. She was my mutual in 2023, I slept with her and I paid her off. Abort mission before it’s too late. Ciao.” Such a comment is not only disrespectful but deliberately malicious. Publicly attempting to ruin someone’s relationship based on an alleged past encounter reveals bitterness, not honesty. Even if true, maturity demands discretion. People grow and move on — dragging someone’s past for an incident you were present in to destroy their present life is the real red flag here.