A lady made a post on X noting that Lt. A.M. Yarima had his hands in his pocket while talking to Minister Wike but removed them when speaking to his military superior — describing it as a sign of discipline and loyalty. She then added, “That’s how women are supposed to be loyal to men.”
This comparison misses the point entirely. Military discipline is about hierarchy, duty, and respect for authority — not gender dynamics. Comparing a soldier’s professional conduct to how women “should” behave toward men reinforces stereotypes that place women in positions of submission.
Loyalty in relationships should be mutual, not one-sided or demanded. Respect isn’t gender-based; it’s earned through love, trust, and character.
Discipline builds armies — understanding builds relationships.
— The Red Flags
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