A post on X claimed, “How can a lady be a virgin at 30? She must be really unattractive… Being a virgin at 30 is not a flex but evidence of one’s inability to attract partners.”
This mindset is shallow and harmful. A woman’s value is not defined by her sexual activity, age, or relationship history. Virginity at 30 could mean personal conviction, faith, discipline, trauma recovery, or simply waiting for the right person. None of these make someone “unattractive” or inferior.
What’s truly unattractive is reducing a woman’s entire identity to sexual experience. Adults should be free to choose their own timelines without shame.
Maturity means respecting people’s choices — not mocking them to feel superior.
— The Red Flags
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