A post claimed that men should never loan money to women they’re sexually involved with because most won’t pay back — except for a few who have genuine integrity. Then one user proudly reinforced the stereotype, saying: “I will take myself for example. I won’t pay you back the money even if you insist. You’re not seeing your money back.”
This isn’t funny; it’s alarming. Bragging about refusing to repay money simply because there’s intimacy involved is manipulation. It turns relationships into exploitation and makes trust impossible.
Healthy relationships require accountability, not entitlement. If someone sees borrowing as an opportunity to cheat the person they’re with, that’s not romantic — it’s a red flag with sirens blaring.
Respect doesn’t stop where intimacy starts.
— The Red Flags
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