The comment encouraging the lady to make 40 men cry because of her beauty is problematic. It trivializes her pain and perpetuates a harmful notion that revenge and causing others distress are acceptable ways to deal with personal hurt. Such remarks can reinforce negative behaviors and attitudes, and instead of promoting healing, they encourage spreading more hurt. It’s important to support healthy ways of coping and resolving issues rather than endorsing actions that might lead to further emotional harm.
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