A Facebook post questioned why some married women maintain boyfriends, sparking intense reactions online. Then came a comment that stood out as a clear cheating-apologist flag: “Any one need me, I dey available.”
At first glance it reads like a joke, but the implication is deeper—treating infidelity like something to casually volunteer for. Whether frustration, banter, or intention, the comment shifts the conversation from addressing why cheating happens to casually enabling it. Marriage discussions online often swing between hurt stories, hot takes, and metaphors, but posts like this momentarily normalize what should be challenged: loyalty isn’t a role you apply to disrupt, and infidelity isn’t a public freelance gig.
Individual actions can be criticized, patterns can be debated, but marriage isn’t a public marketplace for helpers in deceit. It’s a space for accountability, respect, and real conversation—not availability pitches.
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