No Woman Is Truly Financially Considerate - FlowwithOJ

A Nigerian man shared how his date shifted from a pricey 14k ice-cream spot to a modest place selling a cup for 2,500. Her thoughtfulness, practicality, and awareness of value made him consider a serious future with her. Many praised her, calling this generation of considerate women rare and worth keeping.

Then came the relationship-pessimism red flag comment: “Naso dem for beginning ooo, after two weeks, she go later feel entitled.”

This line assumes growth in affection or comfort will automatically turn into entitlement. It doesn’t address this woman’s action—it predicts a negative script based on past disappointments or generational stereotypes. Logically, being wise with money early on isn’t a countdown to entitlement. People evolve differently, relationships build differently, and intentions can stay consistent when communication and respect lead the foundation.

The Red Flags notes the comment not as truth, but as a reminder: don’t treat patterns of pain as a prophecy over every good encounter. Trust should be tested by actions, not timed by fear.