A lady shared a sensitive anonymous dilemma: her boyfriend sponsored her university education, bought her a house, and set up a business for her. Now that he has lost everything, he wants to move into the very house he bought, but she doesn’t want to live with him without marriage—and she doesn’t want to marry him. While people offered mixed advice, one disturbing comment jumped out: “If he comes near you, get him arrested.”
This response isn’t just extreme—it’s harmful. It turns a complex emotional and moral dilemma into a call for weaponizing the police against someone who hasn’t committed a crime. Advising arrest as the first solution encourages hostility rather than communication, and treats a man who once supported her generously as a criminal for simply seeking temporary refuge.
Such comments promote unnecessary escalation, legal abuse, and the breakdown of mutual respect in relationships. Not every disagreement calls for violence, threats, or police involvement.
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