Carter Efe’s baby mama and now ex claimed he was abusive and violent during their relationship, prompting discussions online about accountability, abuse, and survivor support.
One comment advised her to stay in the relationship, saying: “Nne stay there Shebi you’ve been enduring it all, who you wan leave am for ?” This response is problematic because it encourages someone to remain in an abusive situation rather than seek safety or support. Enduring violence is not a reason to stay; suggesting otherwise normalizes abuse and pressures victims to prioritize relationships over their own wellbeing. Advice like this perpetuates dangerous mindsets that trap people in harmful dynamics instead of empowering them to escape and heal.
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