Women born in the year 1999 and 2000s like toxic relationships - Ajewole Riquelme Tunde Abiodun

A lady’s post claiming that women love toxic men, dislike calm partners, and believe that “no fight means no love” sparked widespread debate online. While the statement itself relied on harmful stereotypes, the reactions that followed only deepened the problem. One comment claimed “About 80% of women love chaos,” while another added “Na all this girls wey dem give birth to from year 1999 to 2000s dey reason like this for sure.”

These responses turn one person’s opinion into broad attacks on women and an entire generation. Love is not defined by chaos or constant conflict, and relationship values cannot be reduced to gender or age. Such generalizations normalize toxicity and dismiss the many people who value peace, stability, and emotional maturity.