A man shared a shocking post on X, admitting that after his girlfriend cheated on him in university when he was 20, he spent the next five years pursuing women already in relationships, intentionally wrecking them. He confessed he couldn’t continue this cycle and asked for advice.

One comment responded: “Bro didn’t linger on the pain, he just saw the light. People’s babe happen to be the best.”

This is a deeply toxic statement. It glorifies infidelity, encourages predatory behavior, and frames harming others’ relationships as a form of “growth” or enlightenment. Rather than offering guidance or accountability, it normalizes exploiting emotional vulnerabilities and dismisses the damage caused to innocent partners. Healthy coping with past hurt requires reflection and personal growth—not hurting others to satisfy unresolved resentment.

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https://x.com/Wizarab10/status/2019299776043549129

https://x.com/joelsama101/status/2019301443547853075

https://x.com/joelsama101