A man shared on X that after his girlfriend cheated on him during university when he was 20, he developed a destructive pattern over the next five years of deliberately going after women who were already in relationships. He admitted he was tired of the cycle, recognized it as unhealthy, and asked for advice on how to stop.
A disturbing response read: “Keep it up, na someone else love of my life dey sweet pass.”
This comment is deeply troubling. It doesn’t just normalize infidelity; it glorifies it. The statement implies pleasure in deliberately pursuing someone else’s partner, even extending to married women, and treats betrayal as a badge of honor. Rather than encouraging healing or accountability, it reinforces bitterness, entitlement, and emotional recklessness. It reduces relationships to conquests and validates causing harm to others as a form of personal satisfaction, further entrenching the very behavior the man admitted was ruining him.
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https://x.com/Wizarab10/status/2019299776043549129
