That comment is pretty harsh and reflects a broader issue about how people view relationships and support. When someone supports their partner during tough times, it’s a significant gesture of love and commitment. The fact that the boyfriend left after receiving that support suggests a lack of appreciation or perhaps a different expectation of the relationship.
The advice to “Don’t help any man” generalizes and discourages empathy and support in relationships. It suggests that offering help is a mistake and that one should only give if there’s a guaranteed return. This attitude undermines the value of unconditional support and mutual respect, which are essential for healthy relationships. Instead, relationships should be based on trust and appreciation, where support is given freely and valued in return.
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