The original post highlighted actor Chiwetalu Agu’s message to men about caring for their wives, supported by a video showing his wife devotedly attending to him in old age. The core lesson was about empathy, responsibility, and mutual respect that should deepen with time, not disappear.
A shocking comment then read “Bcus d wife too no go old? Na all of us go gather old na and the maltreatment continues lol.” This statement is openly toxic. It normalizes the idea of abusing or neglecting a partner even in old age and treats maltreatment as something casual or humorous. Beyond being cruel, it exposes a mindset that sees relationships as power plays rather than partnerships. Aging should encourage compassion and care, not entitlement to lifelong mistreatment or emotional violence.
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