A woman had shared how her boyfriend allegedly stole ₦400,000 from her account after gaining access to her PIN, seeking advice on what to do about the betrayal and loss. Instead of offering support or practical guidance, some reactions turned dismissive and harmful.
One such comment read “She will still do the same with another guy. We women no dey wise.” This statement is damaging because it generalizes one person’s experience to an entire gender. It promotes the stereotype that women are inherently foolish or incapable of learning from mistakes, which is both unfair and inaccurate. Situations like financial betrayal are about individual trust and accountability, not gender intelligence. Comments like this shift blame onto victims and reinforce harmful narratives rather than encouraging awareness, caution, and personal growth.
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