A woman shared a distressing story explaining how her boyfriend allegedly stole her life savings—₦400,000—from her account because he knew her PIN, and she asked the public for advice on what to do next. The situation was serious, involving betrayal of trust, financial exploitation, and potential criminal conduct.

Shockingly, one response dismissed her ordeal with “Relationship na give and take.” This remark is highly insensitive and dangerously misleading. Theft is not “give and take”; it is abuse of trust and a punishable offense. Reducing financial exploitation to relationship dynamics normalizes wrongdoing and discourages victims from seeking justice. Relationships are built on consent, respect, and honesty—not coercion, manipulation, or stealing disguised as partnership.

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https://x.com/Wizarab10/status/2019383468778496358

https://x.com/dan_ponmile/status/2019386033155240277

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