A man shared a deeply serious account of being sexually assaulted by a female friend who drugged him at her home, raising awareness about the challenges men face when trying to report rape in Nigeria. His story highlighted a real and often ignored form of victimization.
One comment, from a lady, read: “u enjoy am abi u none enjoy am?”
This response is highly insensitive and invalidates the survivor’s experience. By framing sexual assault as a matter of enjoyment, it dismisses the trauma, coercion, and violation involved, perpetuating harmful stereotypes that men cannot be victims or that assault can somehow be pleasurable. Such remarks trivialize abuse, discourage victims from speaking out, and undermine the serious conversation around consent and accountability.
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