A businesswoman in Nigeria cried out online for help, alleging that her husband of eight years had been abusive, taken her property documents, and made her fear for her safety. In a viral video, she described ongoing maltreatment and said he had disappeared with her house papers, raising serious concerns about domestic abuse and personal security.
One comment responded: “That gender love man way dey lie to them beat them treat them like they’re not important, enjoy what you choose my sister.”
This remark is troubling because it shifts blame from the alleged abuser to the victim. Instead of addressing the seriousness of her claims or offering support, it generalizes women as choosing abusive partners and suggests she deserves her situation. Such responses reinforce harmful victim-blaming narratives that discourage survivors from speaking out or seeking help. Constructive reactions should focus on safety, accountability, and support—not stereotypes or blame directed at someone reporting abuse.
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