Forgiving a partner for cheating can be a personal choice, often involving open dialogue to address the underlying issues. However, the suggestion of “cheating back” as a form of revenge, like Blessed-Blessing proposed, is problematic. Revenge typically deepens conflicts rather than resolving them and can further erode trust and cause emotional harm. Constructive alternatives include seeking counseling, having honest communication about feelings and boundaries, and reflecting on the relationship’s values and needs. While forgiveness may work for some, it should focus on healing and positive solutions rather than retaliation.
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