Women Do Not Contribute To Their Man's Growth - Kingsley

The comment, “When you all say this it looks like you contributed to the growth, but no, you were still there requesting things from him while he built,” shifts the narrative away from the common criticism men like Paul Okoye face after moving on post-divorce. While the initial statement emphasizes the emotional labor women invest in relationships, this counter-comment suggests that some women may not actively contribute to their partner’s success but still expect credit for being present.

However, it’s important to acknowledge that women often play significant roles in their partner’s growth, whether through emotional support, managing the home, or handling responsibilities that free their partner to focus on career pursuits. Dismissing their contribution as merely “requesting things” oversimplifies the partnership dynamic. A balanced view is needed to understand the complexities and shared efforts that often exist in relationships.