No More Good And Well Cultured Woman Outside - Taiwo Tolulope

The comment, “They don marry all the better and well-cultured women, see what is left for us,” reflects a frustrating yet problematic mindset. Instead of addressing the specific behavior of the woman in the post, the commenter chooses to generalize and degrade the entire pool of women as “leftovers.” This kind of attitude reinforces negative stereotypes and places unnecessary blame on women, as if the “better” ones are already taken.

Rather than making blanket statements, it’s important to focus on mutual respect and understanding in relationships. Both men and women should communicate their expectations and work towards shared responsibility, instead of viewing each other through the lens of scarcity or unworthiness.