Ladies Should Not Keep Male Friends - Black Girl Airneh (tokyosbite)

In response to a post asking for girls to share advice with one another, a user commented, “If you won’t date the man, don’t keep him as a friend.” This advice reflects a common belief that friendships between men and women are often complicated by romantic intentions, particularly from the male side.

While some might agree with this viewpoint, it overlooks the value of genuine friendships that aren’t based on romantic interests. Friendships, regardless of gender, can offer support, companionship, and personal growth without leading to romantic involvement. However, it’s essential to maintain clear boundaries and communicate openly in any friendship to avoid misunderstandings. Ultimately, the decision to stay friends with someone should depend on mutual respect and intentions, not just the possibility of dating.