Your Woman Should Be Allowed To Exchange Contact With Every Man Casually - Sanmi Oregunn

A man shared a post about breaking up with his girlfriend after she gave her number to a colleague while visiting him at his office during a meeting. While many condemned her act as disrespectful, one comment stated, “Small number ur babe collect, ur dey write Joro. You’re very insecure, bro,” implying that the man was overreacting and insecure for ending the relationship over this incident.

Labeling the man as insecure oversimplifies the situation and dismisses his concerns about boundaries and trust in the relationship. For many, sharing personal contact details in such a context could feel like a breach of respect, especially in a professional setting. Instead of belittling his feelings, it’s important to recognize that relationships thrive on clear boundaries and open communication. Dismissing someone’s concerns as mere insecurity can prevent meaningful discussions about respect and trust.