Forgiving A Woman Who Cheat Will Eventually Lead To Your Death Or Hers - Oyindamola Ade

After a man shared the heartbreaking discovery of his girlfriend’s infidelity, accompanied by her confession shortly after their two-year anniversary, a troubling comment surfaced: “The biggest mistake you can ever do is forgive a cheating woman. If she no later kill herself, she go later kill you.” This comment not only spreads fear but also discourages forgiveness, promoting harmful narratives about relationships.

While betrayal is difficult to forgive, every situation is unique, and healing depends on the individuals involved. Encouraging fear-based responses, such as assuming that forgiving a partner will lead to violence or self-harm, prevents people from making thoughtful decisions. Relationships should be guided by emotional maturity, accountability, and respect—whether that leads to forgiveness or moving on.