Tochi’s post about a woman using one man’s money to build a house and another man’s to furnish it sparked widespread debate. One cynical comment read, “No love for Nija, both men and ladies deceiving demself.”
This remark reflects a pessimistic view of relationships, painting both genders as deceitful and incapable of genuine love. Such generalizations harm social dynamics by promoting distrust and discouraging healthy connections. While there are cases of exploitation in relationships, dismissing love entirely fuels negativity and makes it harder for people to build meaningful bonds. Conversations about relationships should encourage mutual respect and understanding, not reinforce stereotypes that drive people further apart.
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