In response to a TikTok post where a woman expressed a desire for a partner who would hit her as a “sign of love,” one comment insensitively advised, “No try change am, everybody get spec,” suggesting she should remain unchanged to suit men with violent tendencies. This dismissive remark ignores the serious implications of normalizing violence in relationships.
By condoning harmful preferences under the guise of “personal choice,” such comments disregard the importance of emotional well-being and self-respect in relationships. True compatibility is rooted in mutual respect and understanding, not in preferences that harm one’s safety or dignity. Shifting the focus from enabling harmful behaviors to fostering self-worth can encourage more individuals to seek relationships grounded in love, respect, and healthy boundaries.
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