In the same debate, another comment added fuel to the conversation by asserting, “Like it or not, everybody dey pay to kpansh,” implying that all intimate relationships involve some form of transactional exchange. This viewpoint suggests that even non-monetary gestures, like time, attention, or favors, are forms of “payment” in relationships.
This remark further blurs the line between genuine connection and transactional interaction, reducing relationships to exchanges rather than mutual experiences built on respect, affection, or companionship. By framing all intimacy as transactional, it risks undermining the value of emotional bonds and authentic connections. Encouraging a more nuanced perspective can help readers appreciate that while relationships often involve giving and receiving, they are not defined solely by “payment” but by shared values and intentions.
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