In response to the man’s post about his “good girl” girlfriend, another cynical comment from @jonehmk read, “Dey play! You don’t know whether she is just packaging you for wedding and after, your eyes go see shege from her.” This comment reflects a deep-seated skepticism, suggesting that women may have ulterior motives in relationships, such as pretending to be committed only to change once marriage occurs.

By framing the girlfriend’s actions as a potential “packaging” strategy, the comment implies that true loyalty is hard to find and that trust in a partner is inherently risky. This mindset not only perpetuates distrust but also discourages men from recognizing the possibility of genuine commitment. It highlights how societal cynicism can overshadow authentic connections, making it difficult for couples to build healthy, trusting relationships free from suspicion.