In response to a post by a newly married man struggling to consummate his marriage, one controversial comment stood out: “As always, meet her a Virgin but never marry her a Virgin.”

This statement reflects a problematic mindset, promoting the idea that women should not be virgins by the time of marriage. It unfairly perpetuates harmful stereotypes about female sexuality and the pressures women face in relationships. The notion that a woman’s value or compatibility in marriage depends on her sexual history is outdated and deeply flawed.

Healthy relationships should focus on trust, communication, and mutual respect. Encouraging these values over outdated beliefs helps foster equality and understanding in marriages.

Links

https://x.com/jon_d_doe/status/1854172585786814971

https://x.com/godwinkaburuma/status/1854218378476462384

https://x.com/godwinkaburuma