“Please if you are a married man here, normalise asking your wife if the kids are yours. Ask her the question every year.”
This comment, while aiming to address trust issues, promotes a toxic and distrustful approach to relationships. Constantly questioning a spouse’s loyalty in such a way undermines the foundation of trust that a marriage should be built on. Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect, honesty, and communication, not constant suspicion. Instead of encouraging a culture of mistrust, it’s important to foster open dialogue and honesty. Doubts about paternity should be addressed in a way that doesn’t undermine the relationship but rather seeks understanding and clarity with respect.
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