You Must Be Ready To Send A Lady Money Before You Speak With Her - iamtherealemmy

A comment stated: “You don’t want to send a hardworking Nigerian lady money but you want to talk to them. That’s wickedness.”

This mindset wrongly equates financial support with basic communication, reinforcing the idea that relationships must be transactional. Hardworking women earn their own money and should not expect financial favors as a prerequisite for conversation. Genuine connections are built on mutual respect, not monetary exchange. Encouraging such views fuels entitlement and weakens the foundation of healthy relationships.