If You marry For Respect And Not Love Expect To Raise Another Man's Child - Miss_Lorlai

Amid the paternity fraud debate, one lady tried to justify women’s actions with a troubling comment: “But you said you don’t want to marry for love but respect with cooking and cleaning. You get respect plus side dish of lying.” This suggests that if a man values respect over love, he deserves to be deceived—a deeply flawed logic. Nothing justifies betrayal or paternity fraud. Marriage should be built on honesty, trust, and shared values, not on lies in response to unmet expectations. Excusing deception only normalizes toxic behavior. Both partners deserve transparency, and when priorities clash, communication—not deceit—should be the answer.