When Phyna came online to share updates about her sister’s condition after the tragic Dangote truck accident, she was seeking prayers and support during a very painful time. Sadly, one social media user dismissed her grief with an insensitive comment: “It’s time to rest and stop chasing unnecessary clout with your sister’s predicament. There many people in the hospital today, you don’t see them coming on social media to rant about it. E don do!” This kind of response strips away empathy and wrongly frames her pain as attention-seeking. Grief is not clout—compassion should always come first.