A Man Cannot Be A Virgin - EmekaOEmmanuel

In a discussion about virginity, a controversial comment read, “A man cannot be a virgin. The word ‘Virgin’ does not apply to men in every sense of it.” This statement reflects a harmful double standard that defines virginity as a female-only concept while ignoring male sexual autonomy. Virginity simply means not having engaged in sexual intercourse—regardless of gender.

By claiming it doesn’t apply to men, we reinforce the toxic idea that male worth is tied to sexual experience, while female worth is tied to sexual restraint. This mindset pressures men to lose their virginity early, often under unhealthy conditions, and shames those who choose abstinence. It also downplays male victims of sexual abuse who may struggle to express their experiences in a culture that believes men can’t be “virgins.”

Virginity is not a gendered term. It’s a personal status and choice.