A controversial post about society normalizing fornication and mocking virgins sparked a heated discussion. One comment stood out for its dramatic take on relationships: “But why who you dey keep am for? Man wey deserve virginity na man wey go swear with Ogun say if em cheat on wife wey em marry as virgin em go kpai.”
This comment falls under controversial and extremist categories. It links a woman’s virginity to extreme loyalty oaths, implying that only men willing to risk death for faithfulness “deserve” it. While discussions about trust and fidelity are valid, using supernatural threats exaggerates the stakes and distracts from healthy relationship standards.
Virginity is a personal choice, and decisions around it should be guided by consent, respect, and mutual responsibility—not fear, curses, or extreme measures. The Red Flags highlights the comment as a red flag for pushing unrealistic and extremist expectations onto personal relationships.
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