In the post about the single mother who broke down in tears after selling her phone to feed her child, a compassionate user tried to offer help by asking others to help locate the woman. Unfortunately, instead of encouraging the act of kindness, another user rudely dismissed his concern, replying, “Toto dey hungry you??” — implying that his desire to help was sexually motivated.
This type of response exposes the deep cynicism and moral decay that often surface in online interactions. It discourages empathy and shames people for showing compassion, as if no man can genuinely care for a struggling woman without ulterior motives. Comments like this not only demean both the woman’s pain and the man’s kindness but also reinforce a toxic culture where helping others becomes something to mock rather than emulate.
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