The main story involves a woman confronting a major compatibility issue after discovering, shortly before her wedding, that her fiancé is a heavy smoker. This raises valid concerns about health, lifestyle alignment, and expectations in marriage. The comment — “From critical observation, smokers don’t quit for nothing. He’ll rather choose to let you go than stop his ganja” — takes a blunt, pessimistic stance. While it reflects a belief shaped by personal or observed experiences, it generalizes all smokers as incapable of change and frames the situation as a zero-sum ultimatum. Rather than encouraging communication or informed decision-making, it pushes fatalism, potentially pressuring the woman into resignation instead of evaluating her options realistically and calmly.
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