A Wife Who Adopts Her Husband’s Surname Is A Slave To Him - Kumasi Goodnews

Marriage Collapsed Over Wife’s Refusal to Take Husband’s Surname

A marriage recently ended because the wife refused to take her husband’s surname. This sparked online debates, with one user commenting:

“Na lave the man buy or na wife ei marry??”

The comment implies that expecting a wife to take her husband’s surname is an act of ownership, equating marriage to slavery. However, marriage is a partnership built on mutual respect and shared values. While traditions uphold name changes, modern relationships prioritize personal choices. Demonizing a husband for wanting this tradition upheld dismisses his feelings, just as forcing a wife to comply disregards hers. Balance and communication are key in marriage.