A man recently stirred controversy on X with the statement: “Always pretend you don’t have money.” While this may sound like wise caution in a society where people exploit generosity, it is also problematic. Constantly pretending to be broke can strain relationships, breed distrust, and foster selfishness. Money, like every resource, should be managed with wisdom, not deceit. Healthy boundaries—not pretense—are what protect individuals from being used. Transparency, moderation, and learning to say “no” when necessary are better approaches than living in fear of others. Pretending may keep leeches away, but it also keeps genuine connections from flourishing.
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