As A Bride You Are His Servant And He Is Your Lord - River Crown

In response to a post inviting married women to share their silent struggles, one user commented, “Once a man pays your bride price, you are his servant and he is your lord.” This statement reflects a toxic and controversial view of marriage that reduces the partnership to a hierarchical dynamic rather than a relationship of equals.

While cultural beliefs surrounding bride prices can vary, it’s important to recognize that healthy marriages are built on mutual respect and partnership. Such remarks perpetuate harmful stereotypes and reinforce inequality, undermining the potential for love, collaboration, and growth. We should encourage conversations that promote equality and understanding in marriages instead of endorsing outdated notions of servitude.