In response to an interview where billionaire’s wife Shade Okoya was asked how she met her husband, a comment on Instagram joked, *”Which soap you bath that day bikođđmake I go buy am,”* suggesting that she might have used spiritual power or *âjujuâ* to attract him. This comment reflects a common stereotype that successful relationships involving wealth or power must have involved manipulation or supernatural influence.
Such remarks undermine the genuine connection and effort that may exist in these relationships, reducing them to baseless assumptions. Rather than celebrating Shade Okoyaâs story or focusing on the love that brought them together, the comment perpetuates the notion that women, especially in high-profile relationships, cannot achieve their success or partnerships naturally. These kinds of comments diminish personal achievements and promote harmful stereotypes. Itâs important to acknowledge and respect relationships for what they are, rather than attributing success to unproven or cynical ideas.
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