Blame The Husband For Being Absent When His Wife Cheated - Comr Ike Pentecost

A wild post went viral after a man publicly thanked another man for sleeping with his wife, even adding that the man could “continue” because he had left her for him. As expected, social media erupted with hot takes — and one comment stood out for all the wrong reasons: “Where the man dey when they are sleeping with the wife?”

This mindset is a major red flag. It shifts blame to the husband, as if a man is supposed to monitor his wife 24/7 like a security guard. Infidelity is a personal choice, not something caused by a partner’s absence. Adults are responsible for their own actions.

Blaming the victim only normalizes cheating and excuses betrayal. Instead of asking “Where was he?” we should be asking why people choose disloyalty and why some think accountability shouldn’t apply to both genders.