A man sparked discussion after calling out cases of infidelity among Nigerians abroad, sharing a story about a husband whose wife cheated on him while he felt powerless to respond because she was the main immigration applicant and he was dependent on her status. According to the story, he feared that confronting her could lead to him being sent back home, which left him emotionally distressed.
One comment reacted with: “Anything for papers is acceptable.”
This response is troubling because it normalizes unethical behavior—specifically infidelity—when tied to immigration benefits. It implies that legal status or residency is worth compromising integrity, loyalty, and emotional well-being. Such a mindset promotes opportunism and dismisses the real emotional harm involved, framing wrongdoing as justified if it leads to personal advantage. Rather than acknowledging the complexity of the situation, the comment reduces it to a transactional survival mentality that excuses harmful conduct.
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