The original post focused on actor Chiwetalu Agu’s advice to men to take care of their wives, supported by a video showing his wife standing by him and caring for him in old age. The message clearly emphasized long-term commitment, shared sacrifice, and the value of building a marriage rooted in love rather than convenience.
A dismissive comment then followed: “Na because of say money dey.” This remark completely strips the situation of humanity and reduces a decades-long marriage to financial motivation. It assumes that a woman’s care, loyalty, and emotional labor are impossible without money, erasing genuine affection and sacrifice. Such thinking not only insults the woman involved but also reinforces a toxic belief that love is fake and transactional, especially when shown by women, even in moments that visibly reflect devotion and shared history.
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