In response to a post asking girls to share advice with one another, a user named @tesie_g commented, “until he marries you, keep your options open.” This advice, which suggests dating multiple men until marriage, promotes a mindset that undermines trust and commitment in relationships.

While it is important for women to maintain their independence and make wise decisions, fostering a culture of loyalty and transparency is key to building healthy and lasting partnerships. Keeping options open while in a committed relationship can lead to mistrust, emotional damage, and insecurity on both sides. True commitment requires clarity and honesty from both partners, and this advice promotes a misguided notion that long-term happiness can be built on shaky foundations.

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https://x.com/_theladymo/status/1840742698505965826?s=46

https://x.com/tesie_g/status/1840780325196103882?s=46

https://x.com/tesie_g?s=21