A man posted about spending generously on a partner for three days during her visit, only to have her request a large sum of money when leaving. His frustration reflects a common concern about feeling taken for granted. However, one commenter shifted responsibility entirely to the man, saying, “Men too dey do; the guy will invite girl over for weekend even when he knows he is managing life. What happened to just going out for a date?”
This comment overlooks the fact that dates also involve expenses and don’t foster the same level of intimacy as spending extended time together. Hosting someone offers a deeper connection, allowing both partners to bond beyond the surface, but it requires mutual respect and consideration for each other’s circumstances.
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