The main story involves a man who received an inappropriate message from his former crush, now married, calling him “my love,” and his uncertainty about how to respond. Instead of encouraging boundaries, one comment went further by advising him to sleep with her, saying, “Na you be house owner… still go clean am.” This advice is deeply problematic because it openly promotes infidelity and disrespect for marriage. It frames another man’s wife as something to be “claimed” or “used,” stripping her of agency and trivializing the trust within her marriage. Such comments normalize betrayal, escalate emotional misconduct into physical wrongdoing, and encourage actions that can cause long-term harm to families, relationships, and reputations.

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https://x.com/Benking443/status/2013320575574331694

https://x.com/ZazaXchange/status/2013335349733257322

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