A newly married man recently sought advice online about his struggle to consummate his marriage. Many suggested it might be vaginismus and recommended seeing a doctor. However, one comment was particularly alarming: “I beat my then gf ‘small’ ooo. I was like, ‘Open your legs! open your legs!'”

This comment reflects a harmful and inappropriate mindset, condoning coercion and violence in relationships. Intimacy should be based on mutual respect and consent, not force or aggression. It’s essential to approach sensitive matters like sexual health with care and understanding. Encouraging professional help and open communication promotes a healthy relationship built on trust and empathy.

Links

https://x.com/jon_d_doe/status/1854172585786814971

https://x.com/chookaah/status/1854205585228546225

https://x.com/chookaah