A lady shared how she was duped of ₦35,000 by a man she met, who later attempted to blackmail her with her nude photos after they slept together on their first meeting, threatening to release them if she ever asked for her money back.
Among the reactions, one comment shifted blame to the victim, stating “U dey give man money??” The remark faults the woman for offering financial help, implying women should never support men financially, regardless of context or genuine need. This response ignores the fraud and blackmail involved and instead reinforces harmful stereotypes that shame women for generosity while excusing male wrongdoing.
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